What if something bad happens?

“I feel almost paralyzed with worry — there are so many bad things happening in the world right now. What if something bad happens in my life next? I wish I felt more calm and confident in my life. Any advice?” Oh, how my heart goes out to you. When worry creeps into our lives,

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What is IFS and how can IFS Coaching help me?

“I’ve been hearing people on social media talk about “parts work” or getting “IFS Coaching.” What does that mean? How can this type of personal development work help me?”  The language of “parts” is naturally intuitive – we might say, “part of me is excited to go to the party, and another part of me

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Media Boundaries

“I’ve been practicing different kinds of boundaries in my relationships, but I’ve also been hearing people talk about having boundaries with the news and social media. I tried limiting my time on apps and reading fewer articles, but I keep returning to the same bad habits. I feel bad about not keeping up with information

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How do I tell if this is Autism?

“I’ve started hearing more about Autism and ADHD, and I connect with many of those stories, but it feels confusing. Some of the traits and examples I learn about sound similar to trauma, OCD, or anxiety. Is there even a way to tell those things from Autism?“ You aren’t alone in your confusion! Many stories

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A Decision Making Strategy

I’m a teacher, and I’m really stuck on a decision about my job next year. Do I take on more work, but in the subject area I love…or do I reduce my course load and teach subjects I don’t like as much? Any strategies you can share with me about making that decision? Making a

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Children who don’t listen: Choose connection instead of tension

My child is driving me crazy! They don’t listen and then I get frustrated. Are there strategies I can use to respond differently? Parenting young children can be challenging, especially when they seem to ignore instructions or push boundaries. In these moments, parents often feel frustrated and resort to yelling, punishment, or rigid discipline. However,

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Why Emotional Vulnerability Can Transform Dysfunctional Relationship Dynamics

How can deepening my emotional vulnerability transform my relationship? We have some dysfunctional dynamics, like power imbalance and judgement, I’d like to address. Can couples therapy help us? Maintaining a balance of power, open communication, and acceptance of emotional vulnerability is essential for building a healthy and fulfilling relationship. When one partner feels they have

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